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<description><![CDATA[<p> Welcome to Fck It, Let's Talk About It. The show for the conversations we should have been having all along, and no topic is too awkward or off the table, because if we're all thinking it... From great sex or disaster dates, to menopause, mental loads, body image, boundaries, relationships, and everywhere in between, we're saying the quiet parts out loud. No judgment. No pretending. No pearl clutching. Just honest conversations about being human. So grab your tea, your wine, or your emotional support snack. Fck it. Let's talk about it. Because silence doesn't help anyone. Because silence doesn't help anyone.</p>]]></description>
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<p>In this episode we explore what happens during each phase of the menstrual cycle and why learning those patterns can radically improve the way you work, exercise, eat, recover, and connect with others.</p>

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<p>Your cycle isn't something to fight.</p>

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    <![CDATA[<p>After attending a sexual health and pleasure workshop in Lisbon, we realized the most valuable part wasn't the presentation—it was the conversations that followed.</p>

<p>In this candid episode, we unpack everything from desire, intimacy, communication, consent, and sexual myths to squirting, pleasure, shame, pornography, dating apps, erotic blueprints, body awareness, and why honest conversations about sex are still so rare.</p>

<p>Nothing is off-limits.</p>

<p>Whether you're single, partnered, curious, or simply interested in understanding sexuality on a deeper level, this conversation explores how communication, trust, and self-awareness create better intimacy.</p>

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<ul><li>Myths vs. facts about sexual health</li><li>Desire versus intimacy</li><li>Why communication matters more than technique</li><li>Building trust in relationships</li><li>The importance of understanding your own body</li><li>How shame impacts pleasure</li><li>Male and female perspectives on intimacy</li><li>BDSM, consent, and exploration</li><li>The role of curiosity in healthy relationships</li></ul>]]>
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