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<description><![CDATA[<p>A marriage podcast for people ready to trade in "working at marriage" for prioritizing, being intentional about, and enjoying marriage. Shel Harrington, a seasoned Family Law attorney with a heart for marriage, draws upon her decades of experience working with families to help couples avoid the need for her professional services by providing tools, tips, motivation, and inspiration to help keep the Happy in Happily Ever After.</p>]]></description>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Opposites may attract, but sometimes they're difficult to live with! Shel and Matt share strategies to help navigate the challenges of living in a multi-vert marriage.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Words are powerful tools that can be used to lift our mates up and celebrate our unions. They can also be vicious weapons more cutting than the sharpest saber. Used thoughtlessly they can create unintended conflict. To help avoid some of that conflict, we’ve put together a collection of statements you should NOT say to your spouse.</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Who knew there was even such a <i>thing</i> as Reverse TMI? Shel and Matt talk about common mistakes married couples make that can have a negative affect on their relationship - and the little fixes that can have big impact!</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Ready to think outside the chocolate box? Shel and Matt offer fun and surprising gift ideas to wow that special Valentine in your life. With suggestions for a variety of money and time budgets, you'll be able to provide a gift for your mate that will let them know just how personal your love for them is!</p>

<p>Resource links:</p>

<p><a href="https://www.etsy.com/listing/762328211/personalized-monopoly-board-template?gpla=1&amp;gao=1&amp;&amp;utm_source=google&amp;utm_medium=cpc&amp;utm_campaign=shopping_us_e-art_and_collectibles-prints-digital_prints&amp;utm_custom1=f7838daa-1df8-4f30-bf5e-d94a6d463e16&amp;utm_content=go_304499915_22746212675_78727443155_pla-106555091555_c__762328211&amp;gclid=CjwKCAiA4Y7yBRB8EiwADV1hafrYQypovgBu4sc_vLVXULyJ1WrRECPRy8wNiRRyQfv-8_ZZttMd4hoCj8kQAvD_BwE" target="_blank">DIY game</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.amazon.com/Make-Your-Opoly-Board-Game/dp/B00000K2IO/ref=sr_1_2?keywords=custom+monopoly+game&amp;qid=1581536495&amp;sr=8-2" target="_blank">Custom game</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.swingline.com/us/us/4669/personalized-staplers" target="_blank">Stapler sleeves</a></p>]]>
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<p>In this first episode, Shel and Matt introduce themselves, talk about why they started this podcast, and share the topics for upcoming episodes.</p>

<p>Connect with Shel at <a href="https://www.shelharrington.com" target="_blank">shelharrington.com</a>.</p>]]>
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