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Real Men S1 | EP 13 - Epilogue: Setting the World Ablaze | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 08 Nov 2023 10:37:04 +0000

In this final episode of "Real Men: Designed for Greatness," join your hosts John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers as they wrap up their series aimed at assisting men, families, and communities to live faithfully and courageously. The episode is titled "Epilogue: Setting The World Ablaze," drawing inspiration from the words of St. Catherine of Siena, who said, "If you are who God made you to be, you set the world ablaze." The hosts reflect on their journey throughout the series, urging men to embrace their call to become true men of God and make a positive impact on the world. By recognizing the challenges men face in today's world, understanding their true identity as children of God, and cooperating with God's grace, they can break free from negative patterns and embrace a life of love, sacrifice, and courage. By living authentically as men of God, they have the power to set the world ablaze with God's love and mercy.

Key Takeaways:

Recognizing the Challenges: The hosts highlight the current state of culture, church, and families, emphasizing the need for men to acknowledge the challenges and not be indifferent or disengaged.
Understanding True Identity: The episode explores the identity crisis among young people and stresses the importance of understanding one's identity as a child of God, made in His image and likeness.
Cooperating with God's Grace: Men are encouraged to cooperate with God's grace and become open vessels for God's power and the Holy Spirit to work through them. Emphasis is placed on breaking the cycle of negative patterns and choosing to live for Christ.
Embracing Authentic Masculinity: The hosts discussed the struggle with sexuality and the importance of integrating physical love with a love that is self-sacrificing and focused on the well-being of others. Authentic masculinity involves virtues like purity, humility, courage, and sacrifice.
Responding to God's Call: The episode concludes with a call for men to respond to God's invitation to be men of God, fully embracing their role in restoring the culture of life and love. By surrendering their lives to God, men can experience blessings and make a profound difference in the world.

John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers provide an in-depth and insightful look at the current state of manhood, offering a unique blend of personal experiences, expert interviews, and spiritual wisdom. With a genuine passion for guiding men toward their true potential, this podcast intends to assist men and ultimately families and communities in their call to live it out faithfully and courageously as they work to restore, rebuild, and revitalize the culture.

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Real Men S1 | EP 12 - A Battle Plan for Broken Man | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 01 Nov 2023 08:20:28 +0000

In this episode of Real Men, your hosts, John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers, delve into the topic of restoring authentic Catholic masculinity and living the faith like Jesus Christ. They share their own spiritual journeys, highlighting the influence of male role models in their lives, and discuss the importance of practical methods in becoming true Catholic men. The overarching message of this episode is to encourage men to embrace compassion, humility, and the sacraments as they strive to become intentional disciples of God. Emphasizing the significance of silence and the interior life, the hosts stress the need to listen to God's voice, make reparation for wrongs, and seek knowledge to deepen their faith.

Key Takeaways:

Embrace Compassion and Mercy: The hosts emphasize the importance of experiencing compassion in order to show compassion to others. They highlight the role of the sacrament of reconciliation in opening the floodgates of God's mercy in men's lives.
Cultivate Humility: Humility is seen as the first step towards self-knowledge, essential for growth in holiness and sanctity. Choosing God and others before oneself, especially within the family, is vital to living an authentic Catholic life.
Making Reparation: The hosts discuss the concept of making reparation for past wrongs, both personal and societal, and emphasize the transformative power of the sacrament of reconciliation in this process.
Silence and Interior Life: Men are encouraged to be silent and introspective, allowing them to understand and hear God's voice in their lives. By focusing on their interior life, they can build a strong foundation for living out their faith.
Knowledge and Eucharistic Life: Seeking knowledge about the faith and deepening one's relationship with God is vital in becoming intentional disciples. The hosts stress the importance of engaging in Eucharistic adoration and living a Eucharistic life, drawing strength from the sacraments and sharing God's love with the world.

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Real Men S1 | EP 11 - A Man After God's Own Heart: Courage and Sacrifice | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 25 Oct 2023 09:00:13 +0000

In this episode, your hosts John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers delve into the virtues of courage and sacrifice. They build upon the themes of purity and humility from the previous episode, emphasizing the need for men to understand their dependency on God and purify their hearts, minds, and intentions. This episode centers around the idea that real courage is rooted in knowing and doing God's will. It goes beyond mere fearlessness and involves trusting in God's grace and following His guidance. Courage is not limited to facing grand challenges but also encompasses the daily self-mortifications and small sacrifices that build virtue. By drawing inspiration from biblical figures like David and Joseph, men can find the strength to stand up for what is right, lead their families, and serve their communities faithfully.

Key Takeaways:

True courage is not the absence of fear but the presence of fear with a conscious choice not to be mastered by it. Trusting in God's grace enables men to overcome fear and follow His will.
Courage involves sacrificing for the well-being of others and being willing to do God's work, even if it challenges one's comfort and security.
Examining the courageous acts of biblical figures like David and Joseph provides inspiration and guidance for men seeking to lead virtuous lives.
The hosts stress the significance of daily small sacrifices and self-mortification as building blocks of courage and virtue.
By understanding their dependency on God and seeking humility, men can better embrace courage and sacrificial love in their roles as husbands, fathers, and community members.

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Real Men S1 | EP 10 - A Man After God's Own Heart: Humility and Purity | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 18 Oct 2023 12:21:05 +0000

True greatness in men is achieved through embracing humility and striving for purity. Humility, as not thinking less of oneself but thinking of oneself less, enables men to make a gift of themselves to others. It fosters self-awareness, recognition of weaknesses, and the willingness to cooperate with God's grace to grow in holiness. Purity, on the other hand, goes beyond sexual purity and encompasses purifying intentions, thoughts, and actions, leading men to become men after God's own heart. The hosts John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers draw insights from biblical examples, personal experiences, and the teachings of saints to shed light on the significance of humility and purity in a man's journey toward greatness.

Key Takeaways:

Humility as Selflessness: Humility involves not thinking less of oneself but thinking of oneself less. It means making a gift of oneself to others, putting the needs of others before personal desires, and embracing servant leadership.
Purity of Heart and Intentions: Purity extends beyond sexual purity and requires men to purify their intentions, thoughts, and actions. It involves seeking God's grace to overcome weaknesses and grow in holiness.
Learning from Biblical Figures: The example of King David in the Bible illustrates that even great figures can be broken and fallen. His story demonstrates the importance of humility, repentance, and relying on God's grace for transformation.
Seeking Grace through the Sacraments: Men are encouraged to seek God's grace through regular participation in the sacraments, especially confession and the Eucharist, to purify their hearts and intentions.
Embracing Vulnerability and Accountability: To grow in humility and purity, men should embrace vulnerability, seek help from others, and be accountable in their journey toward becoming courageous and sacrificial men of God.

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Real Men S1 | EP 09 - Made for More: Call to Sainthood | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 11 Oct 2023 09:46:26 +0000

This episode centers on the idea that every baptized individual has a call to holiness and sainthood. Hosts John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers delve into the universal call to holiness and sainthood, as taught by the Church through Vatican II. They explore the practical aspects of living a holy and virtuous life, discussing the challenges and pitfalls men may face on this journey. They emphasize the importance of returning God's love and life through living virtuously and maintaining intimate communion with Him. Holiness is not about perfection but rather about striving to be the best version of oneself, using God-given gifts and talents to glorify Him and serve others.

Key Takeaways:

Holiness is the universal call for every baptized individual, regardless of their state of life. It involves returning God's love and life through virtuous living and communion with Him.
Men often face challenges in understanding and answering the call to holiness. The episode encourages men to start by prioritizing prayer in their lives, beginning in the home and extending to the parish community.
The hosts discuss the parable of talents, emphasizing that each person has unique gifts from God, and the call to holiness involves using these talents to glorify Him and make a positive impact on others' lives.
Men are urged to be vulnerable, humble, and courageous in their pursuit of holiness. They should prioritize their families, protect the dignity of others, and uphold virtuous values despite cultural norms.
The hosts highlight the importance of daily practice in developing virtues. Striving for holiness is a continuous journey, and while mistakes may occur, the sacrament of reconciliation offers the opportunity for renewal and growth.

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Real Men S1 | EP 08 - Made for More: Theology of the Body | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 04 Oct 2023 09:06:03 +0000

In this episode of "Real Men," the hosts, John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers, delve into the concept of "authentic male masculinity" and its relation to the theology of the body. They aim to restore and revitalize the culture by helping men understand their call faithfully and courageously. Coming off a previous theme on mercy, the hosts explore the idea of being "made for more" and discuss the identity crisis faced by men, both externally, influenced by societal values, and internally, struggling with various challenges. By embracing the theology of the body, men can integrate their sexuality and relationships with others, allowing them to live out their true calling as men.

Key Takeaways:

Identity Crisis: The hosts address the external factors contributing to the identity crisis faced by men, including society's changing values regarding marriage, contraception, and abortion.
Internal Struggles: Men's internal struggles with pornography, drugs, and alcohol as coping mechanisms for emptiness are discussed, urging them to seek fulfillment through God.
Dignity of the Human Person: Understanding the dignity of every human person is crucial, regardless of differences or conditions, and seeing each other through God's eyes helps restore respect and love in society.
Teleology and Essence: The hosts explain the classical way of understanding human nature, emphasizing that life has a purpose and meaning. Embracing the essence of being a man, created in God's image, leads to a fulfilling life.
Integration and Communion: The theology of the body teaches that men find their fullness in communion with others, particularly with women, as it mirrors the divine family of God, generating love and life in unity.

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Real Men S1 | EP 07 - Mercy and Mission, Part 02: Mercy from Mission | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 27 Sep 2023 13:45:52 +0000

Following the previous episode's exploration of Jesus Christ's mission of mercy, this episode focuses on men understanding and receiving their own mission through God's mercy. This episode centers around the transformative power of mercy and its role in shaping men's missions. The hosts John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers share personal stories and reflections on forgiveness, reconciliation, and experiencing the power of mercy. Understanding God's mercy allows men to restore their value, identity, and purpose, enabling them to become vehicles of mercy to others in their lives. The hosts emphasize the importance of actively participating in God's mercy, rather than merely acknowledging it, and highlight the significance of reconciliation and forgiveness as vital components of this journey.

Key Takeaways:

Mercy and Mission: The episode explores the relationship between God's mercy and the mission that men are called to undertake. Understanding and experiencing God's mercy enable men to discern their purpose and live out their mission faithfully.
Reconciliation and Forgiveness: The hosts share personal stories, like Deacon Harold's reconciliation with his estranged father, emphasizing the power of forgiveness and its role in healing relationships and restoring inner peace.
Actively Participating in Mercy: It's not enough to acknowledge God's mercy; rather, men are encouraged to actively participate in it through a devoted prayer life, spending time in Sacred Scripture, and seeking the sacraments.
Embracing Vulnerability: The hosts discuss the importance of vulnerability and humility, as illustrated in the parable of the prodigal son. Letting go of anger and resentment opens hearts to God's mercy and allows men to extend mercy to others.
Becoming Instruments of Mercy: By fully experiencing God's love and mercy, men can become instruments of mercy in their daily lives, impacting their families, friendships, and communities positively.

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Real Men S1 | EP 06 - Mercy and Mission, Part 01: Mercy as Mission | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Tue, 19 Sep 2023 04:28:06 +0000

In this episode of "Real Men: Designed for Greatness," your hosts, John Sablan, and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers, delve into the theme of mercy as a mission for men. The discussion centers around the importance of experiencing God's mercy and forgiveness to truly understand and embrace their divine mission. Drawing inspiration from Pope Francis and St. John Paul II's teachings on mercy, the hosts explore how encountering Jesus and His love is fundamental to experiencing God's mercy as men endeavor to restore, rebuild, and revitalize the culture.

Key Takeaways:

Mercy as a Mission: The episode emphasizes the concept of mercy as an essential aspect of men's mission in life. To effectively fulfill this mission, they must first encounter God's mercy through Jesus Christ.
Knowing God's Love: Understanding God's immense love is crucial to experiencing His mercy fully. Men need an intimate relationship with Jesus, the visible face of the Father's mercy, to embrace this divine gift.
The Prodigal Son Parable: The parable of the prodigal son is a powerful illustration of repentance, mercy, and the Father's unconditional love. The son's return is met with open arms, symbolizing God's readiness to forgive and shower mercy upon His children.
Overcoming Guilt and Shame: Many men struggle with guilt and shame over their shortcomings and sins. The episode highlights the importance of the sacrament of reconciliation as a source of healing, where men can encounter God's mercy and receive forgiveness.
Embracing the Father's Love: Men are encouraged to embrace their identity as beloved children of God. By accepting the Father's love and mercy, they gain the strength to fulfill their mission and positively impact the world around them.

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Real Men S1 | EP 05 - A Father’s Love | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 13 Sep 2023 10:53:17 +0000

John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers dive into the profound impact of fatherhood on society and the importance of embracing this role faithfully. The hosts emphasize the importance of fathers stepping into their roles with love, compassion, and sacrifice. They draw insights from biblical passages, particularly focusing on the husband's role as the head of the family and the concept of covenant relationships. By understanding the true essence of fatherhood, men can positively influence their families and communities, fostering a culture of restoration, strength, and virtue.

Key Takeaways:

The Husband's Role as Head of the Family: The Bible portrays the husband as the head of the wife, just as Christ's role as the head of the Church. This leadership role is rooted in love, service, and self-sacrifice, calling men to be virtuous examples for their families.
Embracing Covenant Relationships: We see the significance of covenant relationships, where spouses offer themselves as gifts to one another. Understanding this profound commitment helps strengthen marriages and fosters an environment of mutual submission and reverence.
Healing Past Wounds and Experiencing God's Mercy: Hosts share personal stories of difficult relationships with their own fathers and how seeking God's mercy brought healing and restoration. They encourage men to surrender their lives to God and experience His transformative love.
The Impact of Fatherhood on Society: Drawing from social science, the hosts highlight the positive effects of engaged and loving fathers on children and families. Fatherhood plays a crucial role in reducing poverty, crime, and substance abuse, and fostering better educational outcomes for children.
Embracing the Journey of Fatherhood: Growing into fatherhood is a journey that requires constant effort, virtue-building, and humility. Men can take small steps towards growth and embrace the mission of fatherhood, recognizing that transformation takes time.

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Real Men S1 | EP 04 - Role Call: The Vocation of Manhood | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 06 Sep 2023 12:31:27 +0000

John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers delve into the topic of manhood and the importance of living out one's vocation faithfully. They aim to assist men in embracing their call with courage, becoming true witnesses to God's love and mercy in the world. The discussion centers on the portrayal of men in today's media, the challenges they face, and the significance of discerning their true vocation. The episode emphasizes the vital role of men in society and the need to break away from cultural stereotypes. By embracing their vocation, men can become true instruments of God's love, protectors of their families and communities, and live fulfilling lives with purpose.

Key Takeaways:

Media Representation: The hosts explore how media often portrays men as disengaged and indifferent to their vocation, urging men to rise above these stereotypes and embrace their call faithfully.
Challenges Faced by Men: The episode addresses two significant challenges faced by men – struggles with pornography and uncertainty about life's purpose. It highlights the need for self-reflection, prayer, and discernment to overcome these obstacles.
The Intrinsic Connection of Vocation: The hosts emphasize the link between vocation and God's call, and how losing sight of this divine calling can lead men to align themselves with their senses and selfish desires.
Embracing God's Will: Through prayer and discernment, men can find peace and clarity in understanding God's will for their lives, enabling them to trust and follow His call.
Being True Instruments of God's Love: When men embrace their vocation and respond to God's call, they become true instruments of His love and mercy, not only blessing God but also positively impacting their families, communities, and the world.

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Real Men S1 | EP 03 - In His Image | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 30 Aug 2023 10:12:14 +0000

Men are designed for greatness, called to live faithfully and courageously and fulfill their roles in families, communities, and the church. In this episode, your hosts John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers explore the biblical perspective of man's creation in the image and likeness of God. They discuss the significance of this divine identity, the purpose of men as protectors and defenders, and the importance of finding true worth rooted in God. Understanding their identity as being created in God's image and likeness, and embracing their purpose as servants of God is key to living a fulfilling life.

Key Takeaways:

Men are commissioned by God with the responsibility to serve, protect, and defend, making them warriors for their families, society, and the church.
The biblical understanding of man's creation in God's image and likeness sheds light on the significance of male and female roles and the beauty of communion in relationships.
True friendship and relationships are founded on the principle of covenant, making a complete and total gift of oneself to another, as God does for us.
It is important to recognize one's value, identity, purpose, and self-worth in God, rather than seeking validation from external sources or worldly achievements.

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Real Men S1 | EP 02 - Identity Crisis | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 23 Aug 2023 13:09:36 +0000

In this episode of "Real Men: Designed for Greatness," hosts John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers address the contemporary challenges surrounding personal identity in today's culture. They examine the confusion and uncertainty people have regarding the differences between men and women. Through a video clip from Seattle University, they demonstrate the increasing struggle with gender identity and its implications for society. The hosts emphasize the importance of returning to God's will, nurturing meaningful relationships, and embracing our identity as children of God.

Key Takeaways:

Society is facing an identity crisis, with confusion and uncertainty regarding the differences between men and women.
The video clip from Seattle University highlights the struggle and ambiguity surrounding gender identity.
It is crucial to understand God's plan for our lives and nurture meaningful relationships to find our true identity.
Extreme cases of individuals identifying as animals or resorting to body modification illustrate the profound impact of identity confusion on society.
Our true identity is found in God, and embracing this truth allows us to live faithfully and courageously.

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Real Men S1 | EP 01 - The Catholic Man: An Endangered Species | John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke

Wed, 16 Aug 2023 09:29:29 +0000

In this episode of "Real Men: Designed for Greatness," hosts John Sablan and Harold Burke-Sivers discuss the current state of Catholic masculinity and the challenges men face in today's post-Christian culture. They highlight the decline in practicing Catholic men and the need for resources to address this issue. The episode explores the importance of refocusing on the cross, reclaiming true Catholic masculinity, and re-establishing a strong relationship with God.

Key Takeaways:

The Catholic man is portrayed as an endangered species in a society that seeks to redefine gender, family, and the human person.
Statistics reveal a decline in practicing Catholic men and a diminishing importance of faith in their lives.
Focusing on the cross and aligning with Christ's teachings are crucial in countering cultural challenges and restoring true Catholic masculinity.
Men are called to be witnesses who inspire and attract others to the faith.
The episode serves as a call to action for men to reclaim their role in restoring and revitalizing the culture by embracing their faith and living it out faithfully and courageously.

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Real Men: Season 1 | Trailer

Wed, 26 Jul 2023 06:41:42 +0000

This is not just another podcast—it's a CALL TO ACTION! A call to embrace your true potential as a real man destined for greatness. Step into the world of "Real Men: Season 1 ," a groundbreaking podcast that uncovers the true purpose behind manhood! Hosted by the dynamic duo, John Sablan and Deacon Harold Burke-Sivers, this podcast fearlessly tackles the pressing issues impacting men in today's world. Through insightful discussions, they unlock the secrets to living a purposeful life, aligning with God's perfect plan.

Get ready to be inspired, empowered, and enlightened! "Real Men: Designed for Greatness" is coming soon to Shalom World Podcasts.