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<description><![CDATA[<p>Your weekly spot for real conversation on marriage: the fun stuff, the hard stuff, the sexy stuff, and everything in between.  </p>

<p>And I’m your host, Imani Aieshah, Marriage Coach helping married folks become master communicators in their unique marriage so they can have more peace, partnership, and freedom!</p>]]></description>
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    <![CDATA[<p>We though it was over when we heard Bruce's story of infidelity, but like Rachale said, "when you're struggling, that struggle doesn't just go away." </p>

<p>There were other parts of the marriage hat had to heal <i>AFTER</i> the forgiveness. </p>

<p>And as Rachale shares her story of infidelity, we see how the Kelley's were tested yet again and found their way to a healthier marriage.  </p>

<p>Listen in to Part 2 of their story!</p>

<ul><li><b>How did their marriage survive?</b></li><li><b>How did they find forgiveness and healing and laughter again? </b></li></ul>

<p>Eavesdrop on this episode of the Sauce to found out. </p>

<p>_______________</p>

<p>CONNECT with Rachale and Bruce!</p>

<p>Grab the book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/What-Preacher-Didnt-Say-Altar/dp/1732844402/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&amp;keywords=what+the+preacher+didn%27t+say+at+the+altar&amp;qid=1629485256&amp;sr=8-2" target="_blank">"What the Preacher Didn't Say at the Altar</a></p>

<p>Website: <a href="https://marriageinnerwork.com/" target="_blank">www.marriageinnerwork.com</a></p>

<p><a href="mailto:workwithrachale@gmail.com" target="_blank">Email the Kelley's</a> to get the 7 Questions they've used to have the hard conversations.</p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 40: Still Thriving Through Infidelity w/Rachale and Bruce Kelley Part 2</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>She sounded so nice on the phone. </p>

<p>He was intrigued. </p>

<p>They built a friendship and then a marriage. </p>

<p>So when the shift happened, they didn’t see it coming. </p>

<p>I sat down with Rachale and Bruce as they shared their story of love, marriage, infidelity, Faith, and reconciliation. </p>

<p>This is just part one, where we explore the shifts that led to Bruce’s decision and how he found forgiveness and healing to reconcile his marriage. </p>

<p>I was humbled and so grateful for his transparency. He shared things that so many men struggle with but don’t talk about.  </p>

<p>It’s real, y’all! </p>

<p>A must listen for a healing journey on so many levels.  </p>

<ul><li><b>What led to the infidelity?</b></li><li><b>What were the fears around telling her what happened?</b></li><li><b>How did he forgive himself?</b></li><li><b>How do he reconnect to his wife?</b></li><li><b>How do their marriage heal?</b></li></ul>

<p>Because “you can forgive and not stay?” </p>

<p>So what helped their recommitment?</p>

<p>Eavesdrop on this episode of the Sauce to found out.  </p>

<p>Be sure to join us next week for Part 2 as Rachale shared her story.  </p>

<p>_______________</p>

<p>CONNECT with Rachale and Bruce!</p>

<p>Grab the book: <a href="https://www.amazon.com/What-Preacher-Didnt-Say-Altar/dp/1732844402/ref=sr_1_2?dchild=1&amp;keywords=what+the+preacher+didn%27t+say+at+the+altar&amp;qid=1629485256&amp;sr=8-2" target="_blank">"What the Preacher Didn't Say at the Altar</a></p>

<p>Website: <a href="https://marriageinnerwork.com/" target="_blank">www.marriageinnerwork.com</a></p>

<p><a href="mailto:workwithrachale@gmail.com" target="_blank">Email the Kelley's</a> to get the 7 Questions they've used to have the hard conversations.  </p>

<p><br /></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 39: Do Thrive Through Infidelity w/Rachale and Bruce Kelley</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>It's just not going to be how it was in the very beginning.</p>

<p>Many things about our marriages shift around because we grow and our circumstances change.</p>

<p>And that's not a bad thing.</p>

<p>In fact, it's quite the contrary.</p>

<p>But that doesn't mean that there aren't moments we take for granted.</p>

<p>In this episode we chat about one of the most common points of frustration and "take for granted" moments we have in our marriages and get honest about turning it around.</p>

<p>It's the daily stuff that makes the difference, right.</p>

<p>The daily effort.</p>

<p>So eavesdrop on today's sauce and switch it up today!</p>

<p>_____________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 38: Do Pay Attention</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>The first time I'm really sharing this story in it's entirety in a public space. </p>

<p>Yet here I am. </p>

<p>I felt moved to return from my podcast hiatus by sharing with you why the hiatus was necessary in the very place. </p>

<p>And as I come back to round out Season 2 in the way it was intended, I'm having a transparent, vulnerable moment with you all about my struggles and revelations around losing my mother in this season in my life. </p>

<p>So hold space with me and for me and take  the next few minutes to sit with me as I share candidly on this special bonus episode.   </p>

<p>With Love, </p>

<p>Imani</p>

<p><br /></p>

<p><br /></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 37: Bonus: She&#039;s Gone Now What?</itunes:title>
  <title>Ep. 37: Bonus: She&#039;s Gone Now What?</title>

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    <![CDATA[<p>You may be giving the title of today's podcast the side-eye, but it's one you gotta listen to first before you form an opinion.</p>

<p>This special episode is from a Q&amp;A my husband and I did at this year's Saucy Marriage Weekend Event.</p>

<ul><li>How do you have a successful marriage?</li><li>Is work/life balance a myth?</li><li>Should you have separate bank accounts? And do we?</li></ul>

<p>And so much more.</p>

<p>We basically spilled our own tea in this episode while sharing our struggles and the lessons they taught us over the years.</p>

<p>So stick in those headphones, earbuds, or Airpods if you're fancy, and eavesdrop on today's episode with the me and the one an only Ostus Stephen!</p>

<p>_______________________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>If you'd like to soak up all the goodies (basically marriage masterclasses) of The Saucy Marriage Weekend, you can still check it out <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucyweekend" target="_blank">here</a>. The All Access Pass is still on sale.</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 36: Don&#039;t Get Caught Up in Balance and Success w/Ostus Stephen</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Most of us have a level of anxiety.</p>

<p>This.</p>

<p>That moment alone in this conversation led me to realize something about myself. </p>

<p>Unless you live off the grid, (and perhaps even if you do), there can be so much going on with us physically and so much on our minds. </p>

<p>Work, Friends, House cleaning, You Time, Family Time, Spouse Time, Getting Outside, Quality Time at Home, Virtual Schooling, Homework Help, Transportation Time back and forth, etc.</p>

<p>Sometimes, it feels like the car and the bathroom are the only time you can actually hear yourself think! </p>

<p>We juggle all the balls and our mental health IS affected. </p>

<p>Anxiety. Depression. Postpartum. </p>

<p>They show up. </p>

<ul><li><b>How do we recognize it?</b></li><li><b>How do we navigate it?</b></li><li><b>How do we garner support?</b></li><li><b>How to we help our partner understand and support us in a way that feels supportive?</b></li></ul>

<p>Hadassah Joseph and I tackled these questions and more while revealing our own experiences with anxiety, postpartum, and situational depression.</p>

<p>Hadassah is a Premarital Coach &amp; Mindful Wedding Officiant. </p>

<p>Go ahead and eavesdrop on the sauce and connect with Hadassah here: </p>

<p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/beau_beginnings/" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.beaubeginnings.com/" target="_blank">Website </a></p>

<p>_________________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep.35: Don&#039;t Let Anxiety Shut Down Connection w/Hadassah Joseph</itunes:title>
  <title>Ep.35: Don&#039;t Let Anxiety Shut Down Connection w/Hadassah Joseph</title>

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    <![CDATA[<p>If your sex life is feeling like it's missing something, you may dust off that lingerie or turn up the Marvin Gaye, but often that's only the bandaid on top of a cut much deeper.</p>

<p>If we really think about it, part of our identity gets wrapped up in our marriages, and when the marriage begins to show cracks, we can start to see cracks in ourselves.</p>

<p>On this episode, Freedom Coach, Nataushia Miller laid it out and made it plain. Our candid conversation about self worth, marital trauma, and what it takes to get to restoration will move you in ways you don't want to miss.</p>

<p>Let's talk about it!</p>

<p>Go ahead and eavesdrop on the Sauce!</p>

<p>And check out the fullness of Nataushia's story and her journey <a href="https://www.shinebeautifully16.com/post/the-pain-of-knot-knowing-coach-nataushia-s-story" target="_blank">here!</a></p>

<p><b>CONNECT with Nataushia:</b></p>

<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/freedomcoachnmiller" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p>

<p><a href="https://freedomcoachnmiller.com/" target="_blank">Digital Home</a></p>

<p>_____________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 34: Do Fight for What&#039;s Beneath the Surface w/Nataushia MIiller</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Inspired by the dialogue beneath one of my IG reels, this episode delves deeper into the boxes we put ourselves in our marriages, sometimes without even realizing it (because they've been ingrained in us for so long). </p>

<p>I spill the tea on my experiences and growth around clinging to this notion of "never going to bed angry"  ...</p>

<p>... And how it can be counterproductive to actual peace and resolution after a disagreement.  </p>

<p>Do you find yourself holding fast to this "rule" and missing the things right in front of you?</p>

<p>Let's talk about it! </p>

<p>Go ahead and eavesdrop on the Sauce! </p>

<p>Oh, and you can check out the reel I referenced <a href="https://www.instagram.com/reel/CNngKwDheve/" target="_blank">here! </a></p>

<p>_____________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank"><b>here</b></a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank"><b>The Marriage You Want Tribe</b></a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank"><b>here</b></a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank"><b>@imaniaieshah</b></a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 33: Do Go To Bed Angry But ...</itunes:title>
  <title>Ep. 33: Do Go To Bed Angry But ...</title>

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    <![CDATA[<p>Our bodies change (ladies and fellas), right, but we're hush- hush about it, even with our spouses.</p>

<p>But it's normal... It's natural. </p>

<p>So why don't we just talk about it? </p>

<p>In this episode we chat about the why. </p>

<p>We chat about in what ways we can normalize...</p>

<p>the bellies, </p>

<p>stretch marks, </p>

<p>the areas that gravity touched, </p>

<p>the wrinkles, </p>

<p>the balding, </p>

<p>the greys in unexpected places, </p>

<p>all of it.</p>

<p>And not to stick it to society, but to show appreciation and love to ourselves, to each other!</p>

<p>So go ahead and eavesdrop on the sauce on today! </p>

<p>_____________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 32: Do Talk About Your Bodies</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>It would be great if it wasn't so easy to focus on the negative: what doesn't look right,  what doesn't go well, what didn't happen, etc.</p>

<p>It actually takes intentional work to see the full truth in our lives and marriages, to see ourselves and our spouses fully and without making either the sum of every mistake or "flaw."  And that intention doesn't come easily.</p>

<p>This episode we're shedding some much needed light on how we go about painting a picture of who we are and who are spouse is that puts more emphasis on the negative. </p>

<p>So join me today as we dive into ...</p>

<ul><li>one of the most detrimental dynamics in a marriage (an intimacy-killer)</li></ul>

<p>AND </p>

<ul><li>how to make sure you don't create or continue this dynamic in your own marriage.  </li></ul>

<p>So go ahead and eavesdrop on today's sauce!</p>

<p>_____</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep.31: Don&#039;t Put You or Your Spouse in a Box</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>This was a tough one.</p>

<p>But I talk through my very current challenge with you here in this episode because I know we all need to get real honest about this part of our lives and our marriages. </p>

<p>When it comes to tragedy, death, and loss, we often have gaps in our conversation and preparedness. </p>

<p>And as much as we want to run down avoidance street on this one, there's just no escaping it.</p>

<p>So let's talk about filling that gap this episode. </p>

<ul><li>If one of you is going through something painful, how does your marriage suffer or thrive?</li><li>Beyond a will, are you really prepared if one of you passes before the other? </li><li> How you've got to break any silence or secrecy around money in order to make things easier in the long run</li><li>And so much more ...</li></ul>

<p>So go ahead and eavesdrop on today's sauce!</p>

<p>_____</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 30: Do Prepare for the Inevitable</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>This was the kind of interview I got caught up in myself as I listened back. </p>

<p>It was really personal for me and my guest and we were in such flow!</p>

<p><b>How did being a child of divorce impact our marriages?</b></p>

<p>It was a subject that hit close to home and Marcus Fuller was such a phenomenal guest and conversationalist. His honestly and openness will challenge you, encourage you, and convict you in your marriage.</p>

<p>In this episode, we tackled…</p>

<ul><li>What it was like being a child of divorce</li><li>How we as children actually saw and felt our parents’ decline in the marriage</li><li>How our experiences shaped our current marriages</li><li>What hard lessons we had to learn about ourselves in our marriage </li><li>The communication pitfalls we worked to climb out of</li><li>How we had to recognize the “darker” parts of the way we showed up in order to grow from them</li><li>And so much more</li></ul>

<p>It’s interesting because during the episode, Marcus and I discovered so many parallels between how we showed up in our marriage and what we had to learn to have healthier ones.</p>

<p>Whether you’re a child of divorce too or are just married with children, this is a MUST listen. </p>

<p>_________________</p>

<p>Eavesdrop on today's sauce to see what I mean.</p>

<p>_____</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 29: Don&#039;t Let Being a Child of Divorce Taint Your Marriage w/Marcus Fuller</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Today's episode is a Marriage Mindset Remix Moment!</p>

<p>I often hear from people who feel as if they've lost themselves in their marriage OR that they<b><i> fear </i></b>being lost in their relationship. </p>

<p>They know there is so much they want to do and be a part of in this world before they leave it and wonder if that's possible for them.</p>

<p>I feel you! </p>

<p>But your marriage can be a part of that value, a significant part.  Perhaps, just not in the way you think.</p>

<p>How do we stay grounded to self in the midst of a marriage seeking to thrive in a pandemic?</p>

<p>How do we create the life of value we want without losing the connection in our marriage?</p>

<p>The simple answer to that one: <i>use the connection to help create the value. </i></p>

<p>Eavesdrop on today's sauce to see what I mean.  </p>

<p>_____</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 28: Do Add That Value </itunes:title>
  <title>Ep. 28: Do Add That Value </title>

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    <![CDATA[<p>We say things we don't mean in anger, frustration, or hurt.  </p>

<p>Or maybe we did mean them, but we wished we could get a do-over to say it differently. </p>

<p>We want to feel heard, trusted, and connected, but there are these pesky things we do without too much thought that completely block that! </p>

<p>In this episode, <b>I talk about 3 actual phrases you need to drop from your arguments with your spouse. </b></p>

<p><b>Why you need to drop them</b></p>

<p><b>What happens if you don't.</b></p>

<p><b>And my own personal "adventure" story in making a choice that probably helped to save my relationship early on. </b></p>

<p>Go ahead and Eavesdrop 🎧on the Sauce!</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 27: Do Stop Saying This to Your Spouse</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Financially Mismatched?</p>

<p>They may not say it aloud much, but there are couples out here who are warring inside because they feel disconnected from their spouse .... spiritually.</p>

<p>Maybe you don't practice the same religion.</p>

<p>Maybe you feel you're connected and more devout and are uneasy about the idea that your spouse is not.</p>

<p>Maybe you explore your spirituality more freely than your spouse and worry that sharing that with them will freak them out or have them look at you differently.</p>

<p>Maybe you're praying alone and it's started to feel lonely because you long to pray with your spouse.</p>

<p>My sister-friend, Mindset &amp; Business Coach, Auguste Crenshaw, and I sat down to have a candid conversation about all of the above.</p>

<p>In her business and her life, spirituality permeates everything she does. And she's had quite the journey!</p>

<p>So lean in and take some time to eavesdrop on the Sauce.</p>

<p>Oh, and The Marriage You Want Masterclass &amp; Playshop is this week! Take 2 seconds to --&gt;<a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/playshop" target="_blank">grab your seat here</a>!</p>

<p>You don't want to miss this!</p>

<p><b>Connect with Auguste!</b></p>

<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/auguste.crenshaw.7" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.augustecrenshaw.com/" target="_blank">Website</a></p>

<p>________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 26: Don&#039;t Get Equally Yoked Twisted w/Auguste Crenshaw</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Ahhh, the good 'ol days! </p>

<p>When you got out of bed when you wanted to and not to an "alarm clock" in the shape of your beautiful child. </p>

<p>When a sitter was not a requirement of date night.</p>

<p>When eating that box of donuts didn't show on your waistline.</p>

<p>When you could act a fool and not have it documented on social media.</p>

<p>AND when it comes to our marriage, there are often times we remember and smile.</p>

<p>And while that's great... healthy even!</p>

<p>How do you make sure you're actually moving your marriage forward to create intimacy and closeness and not pulling backwards (consciously or unconsciously)?</p>

<p>Well, let's get into it on today's episode!  </p>

<ul><li>the biggest mistake we make when trying to get closer in our marriage that we often don't realize we're making</li><li>how to look on the past fondly but use that move into the future (and love on the present)</li><li>the ultimate check-in to make sure you're marriage is on track to maximize connection</li></ul>

<p>Go ahead and Eavesdrop 🎧on the Sauce! </p>

<p>Oh, and The Marriage You Want Masterclass &amp; Playshop is next week!  Take 2 seconds to --&gt;<a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/playshop" target="_blank">grab your seat here</a>!  </p>

<p>You don't want to miss this!  </p>

<p>________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a>  </p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 25: Do Spark it UP! </itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>We know that kids, life, work, virtual-school, and many other things can mean shifts in our sex life, right!?</p>

<p>And beyond just time to have sex, how do you actually <b><i>enhance</i></b> your sex life through the years?</p>

<p>In this episode, I sat down with the amazing Sexologist, Chanel Jaali and fired away!</p>

<p>She laid it out plain and dropped golden nuggets to really help you take your sex life to<b><i> your</i></b> next level.</p>

<ul><li>How do you discover your own relationship with sex?</li><li>What’s really blocking you from having great sex in your marriage?</li><li>How do we talk about our desires and fantasies? </li><li>What are those non-sexual turn-ons we’re not really diving into like we should?</li><li>What really is kink? And are you already incorporating it in your sex life?</li><li>And so much more! </li></ul>

<p>So go on and eavesdrop on the sauce now!</p>

<p>_____________</p>

<p><b>CONNECT with Chanel Jaali, Sexologist</b></p>

<p><a href="http://www.jaalico.com/about.html" target="_blank">http://www.jaalico.com</a></p>

<p>Follow her on <a href="https://www.instagram.com/jaali_co/" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p>

<p>Follow her on <a href="https://twitter.com/jaali_co" target="_blank">Twitter</a></p>

<p>Shoot her an Email: jaali.company@gmail.com</p>

<p>__________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 24: Do Have Great Sex w/ Chanel Jaali</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>AND WE'RE BACK!!! </p>

<p>I missed you guys! I'm so excited to start another season with you! </p>

<p>And I know as you breath in the air of a new year, you're soaking up all you can on how to be a better you and have an even stronger marriage. </p>

<p>And a lot of that is probably going to come from the circles where you share the more intimate details, issues, and triumphs, in your marriage.  </p>

<p>The family members.  The close friends.  </p>

<p>Well, before you start soaking up everything, be sure to listen to this episode and discover...</p>

<ul><li>how to share and get insight and still be true to you</li><li>what you're<b><i> really</i></b> getting when you ask for advice</li><li> how to tackle the doubts you have when you're considering what to do to make your marriage stronger</li></ul>

<p>So go on and eavesdrop on the sauce now! *wink*</p>

<p>  _____________</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line--&gt; <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>Share a topic, question, or story!!!</p>

<p>And if you want more support right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 23: Don&#039;t Ask &#039;em For Advice Until ...</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>IT'S THE SEASON FINALE!!  </p>

<p>And it's about YOU!</p>

<p><b><i>What do YOU want for your marriage NOW and going into the new year?</i></b></p>

<p><b><i>What episodes of this podcast will give you a boost?</i></b></p>

<p><b><i>How can YOU have a personal hand in steering this podcast next season?</i></b></p>

<p><b><i>What's in store for next season? It's even Saucier, of course! </i></b></p>

<p>So sit back and please join me in the convo as we close out this season together!  </p>

<p>_____________</p>

<p>Take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>

<p><br /></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 22: When the Resolution Ain&#039;t Gonna Cut It</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>I am <b>super</b> excited about this one right here!</p>

<p>Hubby actually said he'd sit down and chat with me, and we had a good old nostalgic time!</p>

<p>First off, I share a few way to thrive through the holidays as a couple.</p>

<p><b>What can get in the way of you having a smooth sailing season together?</b></p>

<p><b>And 3 real ways to kick that stress to the curb together this season. </b></p>

<p>And we're keeping it light and fun as Ostus and I talk about gift giving:</p>

<ul><li><i>What were our most memorable gifts?</i></li><li><i>Are men harder to shop for?</i></li><li><i>What really makes a great gift?</i></li></ul>

<p><b>And so much more! </b></p>

<p>So sit back and come along with us for the ride this episode!</p>

<p>_________________</p>

<p>Take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 21: When You don&#039;t know what to gift them w/Ostus Stephen</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>I can see something is bothering you.</p>

<p>But you won't tell me what it is!?</p>

<p>I mean, what is that about!?</p>

<p>Well, that's what we dive into in this episode.</p>

<p>It irks you, but it's usually not about what you think.</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>

<p>🎉BLACK FRIDAY Special🎉 ... new techniques and approaches for how to (actually) communicate better--&gt; <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/imccommunicate" target="_blank">learn more &amp; check out the special</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 20: When it&#039;s Supposed to be a Man Thing</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>I know you're busy. The to-do list is never-ending. And it can feel unproductive to stop and spend the time you want to spend with your spouse.</p>

<p>And while I talked about how to reframe time to get that QT you really want in <a href="https://pod.co/thesaucymarriage/episode-1-when-theres-just-no-time" target="_blank">Ep. 1: When there's just not enough time</a>, this is something different.</p>

<p>In this episode, we delve into Soul Gazing. </p>

<ul><li><i>How to do it. </i></li><li>How to fold it into your life. </li><li><i>Why you should try it. </i></li><li>And why you shouldn't take it or yourself too seriously!</li></ul>

<p><b><i>It's time to spark things up!</i></b></p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 19: When You Need a Lil Spark</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>In this Saucy Bonus, I sat down for an impromptu chat with my 5 year old daughter, Sovereign!</p>

<p>She's got some ideas on how to resolve conflict and get along and she share them with me...</p>

<p>...including how she sees her father and I "make up."</p>

<p>Oh, and when this aires, she'll actually be turning 5!</p>

<p>This one was a fun one! I think I'll bring her on again.</p>

<p>Let me know your thoughts!</p>

<p>_______________</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 18: Bonus: Slaysome + Talk it Out w/ 5 yr old Sovereign</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>We all have them, right!</p>

<p>Those "tiny" things that irk the crap out of us with our spouse.</p>

<p><a href="https://www.grammarphobia.com/blog/2006/12/the-pedigree-of-pet-peeve.html" target="_blank">Pet peeves!</a></p>

<p>Hey, I've got them too! And my husband dishes some about me in this episode as well! Fair game!</p>

<p>Listen in and chat with me about what those pet peeves could REALLY mean and how you can have a more peaceful, smooth-running home (and marriage).</p>

<p>Dive in.</p>

<p>Then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 17: When Pet Peeves Got You Like Please Leave/feat. Hubby</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Every relationship leaves its mark.</p>

<p>We can't escape it.</p>

<p>But how much of that mark smears our current marriages?</p>

<p>Consciously or unconsciously, trust issues, insecurities, abandonment issues, can follow us well into the marriage.</p>

<p>How do we heal from hurt and truly lean in to our relationship?</p>

<p>What do we do/say to change the dynamic?</p>

<p>Can we be honest or are we holding it in, stuffing it down?</p>

<p>Do we feel secure enough to share what's really going on?</p>

<p>How fragile is the male ego really?</p>

<p>What does ego look like for women?</p>

<p>My guest, Author &amp; Life Coach, Willie Johnson,, tackle this and more in this episode.</p>

<p>It gets real on this one. And the nuggets are so so juicy ... dare I say saucy!</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p><b>Stay connected with Willie! He's always dropping gems!</b></p>

<p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/iamthewilliej/" target="_blank">@iamthewilliej</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.iamwilliejohnson.com/" target="_blank">iamwilliejohnson.com</a></p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 16: When Past Stuff Blocks The Marriage w/ Willie Johnson</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Sometimes we see great potential in our spouses.</p>

<p>But how do we REALLY support that without feeling like the need to control the pace of it?</p>

<p>How do you support it in yourself so you don't flip out on your spouse for not seeing you?</p>

<p>It's not easy, but there are some simple places to start.</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 15: When You&#039;re Trying to Be Seen</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>When the foreplay you've come to rely on just ain't working... what do you turn to?</p>

<p>It's not always going to be lingerie and Marvin Gaye, y'all!</p>

<p>So we dive into a different perspective in this quick Saucy Bonus!</p>

<p>______________</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 14: Bonus: Foreplay or Bust</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p><a href="https://www.nytimes.com/2020/10/16/style/modern-love-he-married-a-sociopath-me.html" target="_blank">"He's Married to a Sociopath: Me."</a></p>

<p>That was the name of the article that sparked this episode.</p>

<p>Can we/Do we truly accept ours and our spouse's journey?</p>

<p>The parts that we don't like, that worry us, that frustration us constantly...can we stick by each other?</p>

<p>Most couples make some unconscious assumptions that block them from being seen by their spouse and from seeing their spouse.</p>

<p>We get down into that on today's episode!</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep.13: When You Don&#039;t Like That About Your Spouse</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Tune in to the conclusion of my chat with Kami Anderson as she navigates the decision to part ways with her long-time husband. </p>

<p>Finances, Children, Support... they are all a factor. </p>

<p>How do you come through?  How to you move through your fear? How do you even make the decision to go?</p>

<p>We tackle all those in more in Part 2, so listen and lean in with us! </p>

<p><br /></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 12 When the Marriage Feels Over (Part 2) w/Kami Anderson</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>You've got to hit your marriage with the unexpected sometimes!  </p>

<p>A whispered little something-something in their ear when they least expect it... in another language! </p>

<p>BOOM!  You weren't expecting that were you!  </p>

<p>Have some fun with us on this episode, as Dr. Kami Anderson and I chat about adding spice to your marriage in Spanish! </p>

<p>She teaches us 3 easy and spicy phrases to say to our spouses and dives into how we can bring that Bilingual <i>flava</i> to our entirely family!  </p>

<p>Connect with Kami in her <a href="bit.ly/BBBMightyNetwork" target="_blank">Bilingual Brown Babies Network!</a></p>

<p>And on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/bilingualbrownbabies" target="_blank">Facebook </a></p>

<p><br /></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 11 Bonus: Sexy + Spanish + The Force</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Is My Marriage Over?</p>

<p>This is a question I actually get a lot. But it's not one I can answer.</p>

<p>It's one for them to answer.</p>

<p>But I will say this: If you're asking the question, you're not ready for it to be over."</p>

<p>So what do you do from there?</p>

<p>What happens to repair and restore a marriage that can feel like it's spiraling to an end?</p>

<p>I sit down with Kami Anderson in this episode to talk to her about her difficult experience with deciding to end her marriage.</p>

<p>If you've ever struggled with the thought of "the end" or find yourself with one foot in and one foot out, this is a topic we've got to talk about it.</p>

<p>The decision to part ways is not made lightly. And although it may feel over, it might not be where your marriage is actually headed. But if it is, it also doesn't mean you've failed.</p>

<p>Listen to how she made the decision for her, so you can start to think about how YOU want to move forward in your own marriage.</p>

<p>_______________</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 10: When the Marriage Feels Over (Pt. 1) w/ Kami Anderson</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>We hear something or see something our spouse says/does and then BOOM...we've already made up our minds about it.</p>

<p>Our wheels are turning.</p>

<p>Our minds are going.</p>

<p>And we're ready to go IN!</p>

<p>But hold up... because it's not what you think.</p>

<p>Often we find ourselves responding to what we<b><i> think</i></b> our spouse meant by something instead of what they<b><i> actually</i></b> said.</p>

<p>It's an instinctual thing, so how do we course correct that????</p>

<p>Listen in to today's episode to find out!</p>

<p>_____________</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep 9: When it&#039;s Not Even What You Think</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>We know they're listening. We know they feel it. They know when mommy and daddy are not gelling.</p>

<p>BUT what do you do? Avoid arguing in front of them all together so you don't "mess them up".</p>

<p>NOPE!</p>

<p>There's a much more positive way to have healthy conflict with your spouse AND teach your kids how to deal with conflict (now and in the future)!</p>

<p>LISTEN IN 🎧for that HOW with my special guest, Domari Dickinson, Positive &amp; Purposeful Parenting Coach!</p>

<p>Then grab a spot on the waiting list of her amazing program for Black parents, <a href="domaridickinson.com/collective" target="_blank">The Peaceful Parent Collective!</a></p>

<p>Connect with her on social:</p>

<p><a href="https://www.facebook.com/PositiveandPurposefulParenting" target="_blank">Facebook</a></p>

<p><a href="https://www.instagram.com/domaridickinson/" target="_blank">Instagram</a></p>

<p>Trust me, she guides you to a more positive connection with your kids like nobody else AND she makes it fun, ya'll!</p>]]>
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  <itunes:title>Ep. 8: When The Kids Hear You Argue w/ Domari Dickinson</itunes:title>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Look, it's not always pretty. Sometimes those ugly sides rear their heads and we just want to unleash all our pissed-off-ness somewhere...usually at our spouses.</p>

<p>Whether for you it's a quieter more internal "tick off" or something more obvious with some choice words mixed in, it's real.</p>

<p>But we've been a bit tricked in how we deal with an handle anger in our marriage.</p>

<p>So in this podcast we talk about what ACTUALLY works! Oh, and I share mine too...it's kind of a doozy so buckle up!</p>

<p>__________</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Listening back to this, I was damn near in tears...and probably not for the reason you'd think.</p>

<p>The candor and wisdom Charmaine and Marcus brought to the table in this conclusion to their episode was just so freakin' phenomenal!</p>

<p>You do NOT want to miss this!</p>

<p>__________</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> about the episode or a special note to the fullers you'd like them to receive. </p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>This one was both heartbreaking and inspiring.</p>

<p>In my first interview of the podcast, we tackle something most of us never even want to imagine:</p>

<p>How do you move through the death of a child?</p>

<p>Join me and Marcus &amp; Charmaine Fuller as we sit down and have an honest and courageous conversation about parenting, loss, and marriage_Part 1</p>

<p>_____</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>That fickle mistress, Expectation, can cause some riffs in the marriage.</p>

<p>But nevertheless, we got 'em...expectations.</p>

<p>And I'm not saying chuck 'em.</p>

<p>BUT...</p>

<p>...how do we navigate expectation (ours and our spouse's) without feeling like we're not measuring up?</p>

<p>We're diggin' in on that in this very episode!</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a> (folks who send an email note get a shoutout on the show ;-)</p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Real Talk...some things are just hard to share with your spouse. You don't want them to be, but they are.</p>

<p>On this episode we explore how to get over the hump of sharing the hard things.</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a></p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Loss. Remote Working. Laundry. Kids. Other Folk.</p>

<p>All this and more pull on our time.</p>

<p>So how do we go beyond the cliche of "making time" for ourselves and our spouse and really dig into <b><i>how</i></b> we actually do it?</p>

<p>We're diggin' into that <b><i>today</i></b>!</p>

<p>Listen in and then take a sec to drop me a line <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">here</a></p>

<p>And if you want more right now, I got you ...</p>

<p>Come on over to <a href="https://themarriageyouwant.mn.co/share/BjW_JXoruob-u_QP?utm_source=manual" target="_blank">The Marriage You Want Tribe</a>, and let's engage together in real time!</p>

<p>Check out my show page <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">here</a> and grab "How to Avoid the 6 Habits that Keep You Arguing with Your Spouse"</p>

<p>Connect with me on IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>This one is geared toward the ladies, but fellas, feel free to eavesdrop!</p>

<p>In this bonus drip, I'm talking with Charmaine Johnson-Fuller, the Founder of the Charmed life where she helps entrepreneurial moms and wives get their business and family to play nice together.</p>

<p>Listen in for her fabulous nuggets on how to move through the hot mess with ease and sanity!</p>

<p>And check our her free masterclass here: <a href="http://thecharmedlife.live/masterclass" target="_blank">http://thecharmedlife.live/masterclass</a> where she teaches you how to get more time and energy each day!</p>]]>
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    <![CDATA[<p>Marriage is a mix of heavy and light! And here is where we talk about both intentionally and with insight to move you through the biggest commitment in your life!!!</p>

<p>Get the inside saucy scoop on what to expect, "why this podcast", and what it all has to do with you!</p>

<p><b>Connect with me!</b></p>

<p>IG: <a href="https://www.instagram.com/imaniaieshah/" target="_blank">@imaniaieshah</a></p>

<p>Grab <a href="https://www.imaniaieshah.com/saucypodcast" target="_blank">"How to Avoid the 6 Common Habits that Keep you Arguing with your Spouse" </a>here:</p>

<p>*Drop me a line, send some love, or ask a question: <a href="mailto:imani@imaniaieshah.com" target="_blank">imani@imaniaieshah.com</a></p>

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